📦 Buy from Japan TOKYO — Aug 5, 2026

Ask a Japanese Seller a Question: Mercari and Yahoo! Rules

Published Aug 5, 2026 9 min read

The Rundown

  • Of the four proxy services we checked on August 5, 2026, two say they will relay a question to a Japanese seller — Buyee and FROM JAPAN — and two say they will not: Neokyo and ZenMarket.
  • Yahoo! Auctions questions are private only until the seller answers. Yahoo's own help page states questions cannot be deleted or corrected, and a seller gets exactly one answer per question with no edits.
  • Mercari comments are visible to every other user from the moment you post, only the seller can delete them, and Mercari states outright that replying is not an obligation.
  • Both question boxes require a Japanese platform account, and Mercari's own cross-border page describes overseas buyers as customers who cannot use Mercari.
  • ZenMarket states it will not ask a seller for extra photos. Its own photo service costs ¥500 per item for three photos and only happens after the item reaches its warehouse — after you have paid.

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Contents
  1. Can I ask a Japanese seller a question before I buy?
  2. Will other people see the question I asked?
  3. Which proxy services will actually ask the seller for me?
  4. Why doesn’t the seller know I exist?
  5. What is actually worth asking about a card?
  6. What we could not verify

You found the card. The listing has three photos, one line of condition, and a description written for somebody standing in Japan. The thing you actually need to know — are the back corners clean, is there whitening along the left edge — is not on the page. Both Mercari and Yahoo! Auctions have a box for asking the seller exactly that, but neither box is reachable without a Japanese platform account, and only two of the four major proxy services say they will use it for you.

Can I ask a Japanese seller a question before I buy?

Yes on the platform, usually no in practice. Mercari has a public comment thread on every listing and Yahoo! Auctions has a question form on every auction — but both require a Japanese account, and Mercari’s own help center describes overseas residents as customers who cannot use Mercari. So the question box exists and you are standing on the wrong side of it.

Here is what each route actually offers, checked against the platforms’ own help pages on August 5, 2026.

RouteIs there a way to ask?Public or private?Can the seller ignore it?What you need
Mercari (メルカリ)Yes — コメント, a comment thread under the listingPublic immediately. Mercari states comments, unlike transaction messages, can be seen by other usersYes. Mercari states replying is not an obligationA Mercari account. Overseas residents are directed to cross-border operators instead
Yahoo! AuctionsYes — [質問する]/[商品への質問] on the item pagePrivate, then public. Visible only to you and the seller until the seller answers; then both become visible to everyoneYes. Yahoo states whether to answer is the seller’s judgment and Yahoo will not request an answer on your behalfA Yahoo! JAPAN ID. Blocked entirely if either side has blacklisted the other
Japanese shop siteSometimes — a Japanese-language inquiry formPrivateYes, and some say so upfrontCard Labo’s form lists item condition, stock and restock questions among the things it does not reply to
Proxy serviceOnly if that service offers itDepends on the platform underneathYesSee the second table — two of four say no

The pattern is the same everywhere: the information exists, but it only comes into existence if a Japanese-reading person types a question into a Japanese box. Nobody generates it for you in advance.

Will other people see the question I asked?

On Mercari, yes, from the second you post it. On Yahoo! Auctions, not at first — your question is visible only to you and the seller — but the moment the seller answers, Yahoo publishes the question and the answer together for every other user to read. That difference changes what it is smart to ask.

💬 Mercari comment (コメント)

  • Public the instant you post it
  • Only the seller can delete it — buyers cannot delete their own
  • A deleted comment leaves a visible "the seller deleted a comment" marker
  • No images can be attached
  • Comments close once a transaction has started

❓ Yahoo! question (出品者への質問)

  • Private until the seller answers, then fully public
  • Cannot be deleted or corrected by anyone
  • The seller gets one answer per question — no edits, no follow-ups
  • No answers at all after the auction ends
  • A manual relist wipes the whole Q&A thread

Two consequences worth holding on to. First, on Mercari your question is a free advertisement for the listing — you are telling every other watcher that a foreign buyer is interested in this card and that it is worth a second look. Second, on Yahoo! the seller has one shot at answering. Ask three things in one post and you will often get one of them addressed, with no mechanism for a follow-up except a second permanent public question.

⚠️ A Yahoo! question is permanent

Yahoo's help page for buyers states that questions cannot be deleted or corrected, and that once the seller answers, the question and answer become visible to all other users. There is no edit. Separately, if Yahoo's system judges the content unsuitable for the question column, the post is simply not shown to the seller — and the seller-side help page notes no automatic notification is sent either, so it can fail silently and look like being ignored.

Which proxy services will actually ask the seller for me?

Two of the four we read say yes and two say no, and they say it in their own published help pages — this is not a matter of which support agent you get. Buyee and FROM JAPAN both document the request as a normal pre-purchase support ticket. Neokyo and ZenMarket both rule it out in writing.

ServiceWill it ask the seller a question?In its own wordsPublished fee for asking
BuyeeYes”We will ask the seller questions on behalf of customers” — send the item link and your questions via the contact form before biddingNone stated on that page
FROM JAPANYes”We accept requests to contact sellers with questions. To do so, please contact Customer Service before bidding or ordering”None stated on that page
NeokyoNo”we cannot negotiate item prices with sellers, request to split a set of items or contact the seller to ask a question about an item”n/a
ZenMarketNoOn extra photos: “No, the photos provided by the sellers in their listings and on their websites are the only ones available.” Price negotiation is also a documented non/a — its own photo service is ¥500 per item for three photos, after warehouse arrival

Read the ZenMarket row twice, because it is the most expensive misunderstanding in this whole article. ZenMarket will photograph your card — but only once the card is in its warehouse, which is after the purchase is final. That is a receipt, not a decision tool. FROM JAPAN’s trading-card clause pushes in the same direction: its Q&A lists items with minor scratches, damage or color differences, and items requiring specialized knowledge to determine authenticity, as not eligible for compensation, then recommends its paid photo service after purchase to prevent problems.

So on the two services that will not ask, every question you have about a raw single stays unanswered until money has changed hands.

🗼 What we can do about this

The one thing that would settle whether a card is worth buying — a question typed in Japanese into a Japanese box, before the bid — is the thing Neokyo and ZenMarket state in writing that they will not do, and the thing you cannot do yourself without a Japanese account. We are in Tokyo with Japanese accounts. We will read the listing, write the question in Japanese in a form a seller will actually answer, ask for one specific thing rather than five, and send you the reply and any photos before you commit to anything. If you want the card after that, you get one combined number up front — item, our sourcing fee, and tracked shipping — and you decide then. We do not grade cards and we cannot make a seller reply; what we can do is make sure the question was asked properly and in time.

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Why doesn’t the seller know I exist?

Because in the seller’s paperwork, you were never the buyer — and that is by design, stated on Mercari’s own page. Mercari’s cross-border support page explains that officially linked operators buy from Mercari sellers on behalf of overseas customers who cannot use Mercari, ship to a Japanese address, and handle export and customs. Then it reassures sellers directly: because all dealings with overseas customers are handled by the cross-border operator, no communication with the overseas buyer arises.

Buyee says the same thing from its side of the counter — as far as the seller is concerned, Buyee is the winner of the auction, so Buyee asks customers not to contact sellers directly, to avoid miscommunication and delays.

This is not a service failing. It is the product working exactly as specified. It also explains why Mercari’s rulebook is not going to help you: Mercari’s prohibited-conduct page lists shipping items overseas as a prohibited act for sellers, which is the whole reason the proxy layer exists in the first place. If you want a fuller comparison of that layer, we have one in Japanese proxy services compared for cards and a head-to-head in ZenMarket vs Buyee for Pokémon cards.

What is actually worth asking about a card?

One thing, phrased so the answer is a photo rather than an opinion. A seller who is asked “what condition is this in?” will repeat the dropdown they already selected. A seller who is asked for a photo of the back corners under a light either takes it or doesn’t, and both outcomes tell you something.

✅ Worth asking / not worth asking

  • Worth it: additional photos of the front and back in bright light (追加写真)
  • Worth it: whether there is edge whitening (白かけ), a bend or crease (折れ), or warping (反り)
  • Worth it: whether the card has been sleeved since it was pulled (即スリーブ保管)
  • Skip it: price negotiation — Neokyo and ZenMarket both state they will not negotiate, so it wastes the one question you have
  • Skip it: anything about shipping to your country — the seller ships to a Japanese warehouse and Mercari prohibits overseas shipping outright
  • Never: your name, address, or an offer to deal off-platform. Mercari lists proposals for direct transactions and posting personal information among the reportable comment offenses, and Yahoo warns not to write anything you would mind being published

Those Japanese damage words are the same vocabulary the listing itself is written in, and they are worth learning before you ask anything — we broke the whole set down in Japanese card condition terms explained. If you are still choosing between the two platforms, the trade-offs are in Mercari vs Yahoo! Auctions for cards.

What we could not verify

Two gaps, stated rather than papered over. Neither Mercari’s comment page nor Yahoo’s question page says anything about the language a post has to be written in, so we are not claiming that an English question breaks a rule — we only know that Mercari puts no obligation on a seller to reply and Yahoo leaves it entirely to the seller’s judgment. And no service among the four publishes a price for relaying a question, so we cannot tell you what it costs beyond “nothing is stated.” If a service quotes you a fee for it, that fee is not on the page we read.

What is not in doubt is the shape of the thing. The condition information you need about a Japanese card listing is not written down anywhere. It exists only as an answer to a question that has not been asked yet, in a language you probably do not read, in a box you cannot reach — and half the industry built to bridge that gap has published, in writing, that bridging it is not part of the service.

Frequently asked questions

Can I message a Mercari seller in English?

You can type anything you want into the comment box, but two things work against you. Mercari's own help page states that answering comments is not an obligation for the seller, and it also states that comments are visible to all other users — so a seller who is unsure what you wrote is deciding in public. Neither Mercari's comment page nor Yahoo's question page says anything about what language a post must be in, so we are not going to claim English is against the rules. What we can say is that a translated Japanese sentence gets read, and an English paragraph often gets scrolled past.

How much does it cost to have a proxy service ask the seller a question?

None of the four services we read publishes a price for relaying a question. Buyee and FROM JAPAN both present it as a normal customer-support request through their contact forms, with no fee stated on those pages. Neokyo and ZenMarket do not offer it at any price. The one number we could verify nearby is ZenMarket's own photo service at ¥500 per item for three photos, which happens after the item arrives at their warehouse — so it tells you what you bought, not what you are about to buy.

Can I delete a question on Yahoo! Auctions if I make a mistake?

No. Yahoo's help page for buyers states plainly that questions cannot be deleted or corrected, and tells you to check carefully before writing. If the seller answers, both your question and the answer become visible to every other user. If you accidentally posted personal information and it has been made public, Yahoo directs you to a separate removal request form rather than letting you edit the post.

Why does the seller never talk to me even after the card ships?

Because in the seller's records, you were never the buyer. Mercari's official cross-border support page states that all communication with overseas customers is handled by the cross-border operator, so no contact with the overseas buyer arises. Buyee's FAQ makes the same point from the other side: as far as the seller is concerned, Buyee won the auction, and Buyee asks customers not to contact sellers directly.

Can I just email a Japanese card shop instead?

Some shops have a contact form, but read what it excludes. Card Labo's online store inquiry page lists the categories it does not reply to, and inquiries about item condition, stock, and incoming stock are on that list. So on the route where a business is contactable, the specific question a collector wants to ask is the one carved out.

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